Drama...

Our society has become consumed with drama and keeping up to date on every second of peoples lives. We have tabloids, we have social media, and we have the news keeping us up to date on the latest and greatest. We are conditioned to want to know everything about everyone. It is not our fault that when drama presents itself, we want to get involved.

The problem with this is that our lives become consumed by other people and we lose sight of ourselves. We are spread way too far and way too wide when we have our energies intertwined in other peoples lives. Because of this we can no longer focus on ourselves and what we need. Ever joked about giving great advice to others, but never following your own advice? We spend time focusing on other people's problems and situations surrounding their lives because we either feel the need to help or we refuse to focus on ourselves and what we need. Sometimes we have so much going on in our own lives that it is easier to focus on someone else's. Most of us strive to help people. There is nothing wrong with wanting to help other people, but when you let it weigh on you and drain your energies, then it becomes a problem.

If you want to cut ties with this drama simply wait before you involve yourself in any situation and think about it. Does it really involve you? If it doesn't involve you, is it really necessary for you to get involved? Sometimes the best way for people to get through a rough patch is to be forced to help themselves. Constantly aiding someone who is always needing help from other people is like leading them around because they are blindfolded. Yes, you are helping them greatly by guiding them when they can't see, but think about it... if you stop guiding them around, they are going to be forced to figure out how to take the blindfold off and guide themselves. The best way to help others is to step back so they are able to help themselves.

If the drama truly involves you and a resolution must be made, no fear, there is always a solution. No matter how big or small the problem might be, there is always a way to resolve it quickly and peacefully. It is really important to look at your involvement in the situation (no, do not blame yourself). We don't typically want to look inward because we fear that the problem might be our fault or the fear that the problem might be bigger than we want to see it to be. Instead of letting the problem grow, it is best to look inward to figure out the root of the problem. We wouldn't water a flower with a bottle of something that looks like water and use it just because it is sitting there and convenient to use at the time. We would normally smell the liquid or read the label before pouring it in the pot because we don't want to poison the flower. Even if we initially used something that harmed the flower because it seemed okay, we would notice that our flower wasn't blooming, but instead dying. We would rush to remedy this situation! When we don't look within ourselves to really figure out what is going on, we could be poisoning the situation with what we think is a solution. If we initially do more harm than good, no worries. Just make sure to look a little deeper and a solution will come from it that is healthy and beneficial. Dig deep and ask for clarity and guidance from your angels, as they are eager to help you.

Focus inward to find clarity outward

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